worrying and impulses
Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2020 5:24 pm
Hello!
With quarantine, I've been taking the time to explore and talk to other about kinkier activities remotely, which is nice! However, with everything about this pandemic being unknown to a degree, Sometimes I get hopeless and think "If I might not make it to the end of this, then I might as well do these things now; I don't want to regret not doing something." This is a weird thought, because I don't actually want to socialize with people without distancing but I also don't like masturbating much anymore despite switching things up and my antidepressants make orgasms difficult. I know we are all struggling with not physically interacting with others, but I didn't think I would get like this! I wouldn't call it an anxiety but more like a strong worry based on how I feel.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is: how do I manage this impulse to be reckless? I'm embarassed to even tell my therapist. Is an "intimacy bubble" with people I'm not living with realistic? Thanks for your help :)
With quarantine, I've been taking the time to explore and talk to other about kinkier activities remotely, which is nice! However, with everything about this pandemic being unknown to a degree, Sometimes I get hopeless and think "If I might not make it to the end of this, then I might as well do these things now; I don't want to regret not doing something." This is a weird thought, because I don't actually want to socialize with people without distancing but I also don't like masturbating much anymore despite switching things up and my antidepressants make orgasms difficult. I know we are all struggling with not physically interacting with others, but I didn't think I would get like this! I wouldn't call it an anxiety but more like a strong worry based on how I feel.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is: how do I manage this impulse to be reckless? I'm embarassed to even tell my therapist. Is an "intimacy bubble" with people I'm not living with realistic? Thanks for your help :)