Scarleteen

hi, i have a concern to share/question to ask.

i have a girlfriend with whom i've discussed the topic of sex between us (a little...tricky since we're both girls, but anyways), but i worry i'll be not lubricated enough to where it won't be enjoyable for either one of us or that something else goes wrong.

someone, help please !

Hi anotheraltgirl,

With those lubrication worries, there are two big things that can help if you're not feeling lubricated enough to be comfortable. One is to buy some lube off the shelf and keep it handy in case you need extra. Another is to make sure you're really aroused before you try inserting anything into the vaginal canal.

With your girlfriend, have the two of you talked about what activities you each are or are not interested in during sex, and what you'd each need to feel safe and ready to be sexual with the other person?