How to progress after the 1st intimate moment (also question regarding ear erogenous zones)
Posted: Sun Aug 16, 2020 12:21 pm
I am sorry, the story will jump all over the place, but I will appreciate any opinions right now.
We didn't do anything sexual really. But by the end of the day, not only we have been doing full make out, but I was actively pin her down and kissing and nibbling her ears by her request. And let's me explain the last point. She wanted to try nibbling my ears, and i returned the favour. But she liked her ears being nibbled and kissed so much, that as I do it (with her permission), she constantly kicked and scratched badly on my backs (we were shirtless) and moaned out sweetly and loudly (which i only can describe as straight from pornographic movie). She ended up trying to mute herself and bite/ give hickey all over my chest.
So I have 2 questions:
Much thanks. Any opinions/ advice would be welcomed
- 1. I: male, suspected aesexual, young adult in male, no experience before, finally got my 1st girlfriend
2. My partner: female, also young adult, told me that I am her 1st boyfriend and she has no experience before. But she is quite conservative, so she asked me to be patient and to not 'going all the way in our relationship yet'.
We didn't do anything sexual really. But by the end of the day, not only we have been doing full make out, but I was actively pin her down and kissing and nibbling her ears by her request. And let's me explain the last point. She wanted to try nibbling my ears, and i returned the favour. But she liked her ears being nibbled and kissed so much, that as I do it (with her permission), she constantly kicked and scratched badly on my backs (we were shirtless) and moaned out sweetly and loudly (which i only can describe as straight from pornographic movie). She ended up trying to mute herself and bite/ give hickey all over my chest.
So I have 2 questions:
- A) Is it normal for anyone to be turned on so much just by being kissed and nibbled on the ears? I trusted that she really was inexperienced and didn't fake it for me. But at one point, based on her moaning, I seriously was wondering if she actually can orgasm from it. I never see anything like this in any media (movie or porn) i watched
B) How do I go from here? I will 100% respect her request, and sex is out of the question for a year or so. But after knowing I raised the bar so high for her today (assume she really felt it), now I afraid anything I do afterwards gonna be a disappointment, and she eventually will get bored with the ears kissing/ nibbling and expecting something more that I can't provide. She hinted that aside from sex, anything else might be possible, include touching her breasts and i don't know if her genital in later days. But now I need to find something else, maybe some other erogenous zone to at least cycle the activities and make it not boring for her.
Much thanks. Any opinions/ advice would be welcomed