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Why would she just pee
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Why would she just pee
So the other night me and my girlfriend were sat in bed and she started using her vibrator she was rubbing her vagina with it and I began stroking her around the area of her vagina, she had been doing this for around ten minuets when a cloudy clear fluid began spraying on the bed there was about four and a half sprays of this fluid I was just wondering why she would just pee on our bed or was it something I did wrong im just really confused
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Re: Why would she just pee
Hi Dan!
It sometimes just happens when people are experiencing pleasure or stimulation that they involuntarily pee themselves to some extent... what you're describing sounds a bit more like ejaculation fluid (clear, coming out in 'sprays') which while it might contain some urine, isn't thought to be the same thing. Some people 'squirt' it during sexual intimacy and it is often but not always associated with pleasure and orgasm.
It isn't understood as well as it should be for people with vulvas. In either case it isn't really anything to worry about, however it sounds like it would be a good idea to talk to your girlfriend about it as *she* can tell you far more about how it feels and what it means for her.
It sometimes just happens when people are experiencing pleasure or stimulation that they involuntarily pee themselves to some extent... what you're describing sounds a bit more like ejaculation fluid (clear, coming out in 'sprays') which while it might contain some urine, isn't thought to be the same thing. Some people 'squirt' it during sexual intimacy and it is often but not always associated with pleasure and orgasm.
It isn't understood as well as it should be for people with vulvas. In either case it isn't really anything to worry about, however it sounds like it would be a good idea to talk to your girlfriend about it as *she* can tell you far more about how it feels and what it means for her.
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Re: Why would she just pee
okay thank you