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Painful Masturbation

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Erikabuckland
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Painful Masturbation

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I’m 15 years old and Every time I masturbait I feel so uncomfortable, and I feel pressure that hurts. Anyone know why it hurts to finger my self?
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Sam W
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Re: Painful Masturbation

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Erikabuckland,

Masturbation can be painful or uncomfortable for a number of reasons, but the most common ones are not using enough lube, being tense or anxious, or not being quite aroused enough for insertion of fingers to feel comfortable. Do any of those sound like they apply to you?
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Re: Painful Masturbation

Unread post by Melamyl »

I've had it before when masturbation was new to me(back in high school). It's funny because my bestfriend gave me the idea of using lube and I tried to get my parent's lube sneakily just to get my hands on one. It worked for me so I'm sure it will work to you too. :)
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