Scarleteen

So the title basically. My family is pretty religious and believes masturbation and sex before marriage are sins so they wouldn't want me to have stuff like that. I they wouldn't disown me or just punish me, they'd probably just be disappointed, but I still don't want them to know.

So how can I get it without anyone knowing? I'm kinda too ashamed to just buy it in a store and idk if there is another place where I could get it. Or another possibility is to use something that's not marketed as lube, but can be used as such, but I don't know what stuff is safe to use.

idk if it matters but: I'd only use it for masturbation.

Hi Sky H,

There are a few different ways you could approach this. Most drugstores or grocery stores carry lube, and if you got a small bottle of it you may be able to conceal it pretty easily (though there's still no guarantee it won't be found). Since you're only using it for masturbation, and oil-based lube like Vaseline or coconut oil is also an option, and wouldn't immediately indicate you'd been masturbating if someone found it in your room.