I still cant ejaculate.

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Magicarp778
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I still cant ejaculate.

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I am 13 and 5 months and I still cant ejaculate and I really want to but im worried I will never be able to, Please help me.
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Sam W
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Re: I still cant ejaculate.

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Hi Magicarp778,

It sounds like this is really stressing you out! If it helps to know, people don't hit the exact same stage of puberty at the exact same age, so sometimes a certain part of it (like first ejaculation) comes a little later for you than it does for your peers. But there's no reason to assume you'll never be able to ejaculate.

Too, if you've been masturbating and are stressing out about whether or not you're going to ejaculate, that can actually make ejaculation less likely, because pressure or stress is a big-time arousal killer. Does that all make sense?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Magicarp778
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Re: I still cant ejaculate.

Unread post by Magicarp778 »

Yeah, Thanks I guess I will try to stop stressing it and just let it happen when it happens. Thanks for the help Sam W.
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