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jerking off
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Skater25
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jerking off
Is there a way to be more secret about jerking off. I'm 14 years old in high school and the only time I jerk off is when I'm in the shower and how many times should I jerk off a day
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Heather
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Re: jerking off
This is a bit like someone who likes to eat green beans in private asking where they can, and how many they can eat.
Where you find privacy in your hone, for anything, is really something you know. We can't. If the bathroom is where that is, okay.
In terms of how often with masturbation, that, too, is something you figure out for yourself. If it feels right, physically and emotionally, and is not getting in the way of your life, then it's all good. So, how many times in a day, week, month, whatever, is up to you and about what works for you.
Where you find privacy in your hone, for anything, is really something you know. We can't. If the bathroom is where that is, okay.
In terms of how often with masturbation, that, too, is something you figure out for yourself. If it feels right, physically and emotionally, and is not getting in the way of your life, then it's all good. So, how many times in a day, week, month, whatever, is up to you and about what works for you.
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