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hey, im a 13 year old female

anyways how can i masturbate without having to put an object up there, cus like the hole is small and it looks like my freaking guts r falling out from there ik it sounds gross okokok

oh also air jets dont work, and i dont want my parents to know about me masturbating ! they find masturbation gross and disgusting so cant buy a vibrator even tho i want one cus i think thats what would really help me

anyways yeah lol pls help

Hi urmomlol,

There are lot of ways of masturbating that don't involve inserting objects into the vaginal canal. This article covers those, as well as a lot of information about masturbation: Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation. If you're interested in using things like vibrators, this article covers how to safely D.I.Y them from objects you might have around the house or can easily get access to: D.I.Y. Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition. Just remember not to direct bursts of air or of water into the vaginal canal.

When you say it "looks like your guts are falling out," are you talking about how the body parts that surround the vagina look?

im talking abt the vagina hole thing, theres like this lumpy thing in the way there

Is it possible that you're referring to the clitoris? Check out this article here: Innies & Outies: The Vagina, Clitoris, Uterus, and More. Does the description for the clitoris match the lumpy thing?

Or you may mean your cervix, if you're talking about way back in your vagina. If so, that is the end of your uterus, and while all of our insides, including the vagina, are effectively "guts" you're right, that is also your guts! But it's normal, totally tethered -- like, it's not going anywhere, I promise.

It's also okay to feel weird about it. Bodies and genitals ARE kind of weird, aren't they? I mean, it's all weird, but it is also all okay. If it takes you time to get used to the weirdness of your body or any of its parts, that's something a lot of people go through.