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So, I'm 15 (almost 16) and I'm finally losing my virginity. I'm a bit nervous but mostly excited, because the person I'm going to have sex with is the coolest person ever (I'm going to call them J). I'm AFAB and so is J. I've never watched porn, because of locks on my browser.

So... I'd appreciate links to any articles on here for sex between two people born female, and any advice. Just anything about losing your virginity.

Also, after establishing that we were going to have sex, we talked about kinks and stuff, and it turns out that we are both really kinky. Does anyone have advice on how to incorporate that into our first time? We thought of a few ways, but right now we can't do a lot.

Hi ez.as.pie,

It sounds like the two of you are already following one of our biggest pieces of advice, because you're communicating really clearly with each other! I'm going to give you a few different resources to start you off, including ones the two of you could go over together:
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist (I suspect you two have talked about much of this, but this can help you make sure you have everything you need for the experience to be positive).
Yes, No, Maybe So: A Sexual Inventory Stocklist
D.I.Y. Sex Toys: The Partnered Edition (this includes advice on how to incorporate what many people think of as kinky things into your sex life safely).
https://www.scarleteen.com/article/gend ... er_sexpert

How do those look as starting places?