First dildo at 16

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First dildo at 16

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I recently got a dildo about 5 or so inches long 1½ inches wide with curved head. I'm a little worried because I can only fit about 1½ inches into my vagina before it hurts like needles, on the other hand I can fully enter it into my back door no problem even though this is my first dildo. Is there something wrong with my vag because it hurts or something Wrong with the back door because it's feels fine even though it's it's first?
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Re: First dildo at 16

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Hi Secretaccount,

To start out with, there's nothing wrong with your body because inserting the toy into your vaginal canal feels one way and inserting it into your anus feels another. I wonder if the difference may be how much lube you're using for each activity; are you using a lot of lube for anal stimulation but not a lot for vaginal insertion?
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