Fingering pregnancy scare

[Liliana101]

I am currently going through a very big pregnancy scare. I was fingered by around the 31st of January and I got my period for February. I took a pregnancy test on February and it came back negative but still I continued stressing about pregnancy. My sisters kept telling me that they had dreams about me pregnant I don't believe in dreams but that was something I really did not need in life at a time like this. We are now in March and my period is 6 days late. I went to the Doctor this past weekend and there was nothing at all in my uterus. But I am still very scared and have a lot of what ifs. I have a test today and my mind is not focused at all. I have an appointment for a pregnancy test tomorrow and I must say, I am really nervous. I feel like my life is falling apart...I really don't know what to do.

[Sofi]

Hi Liliana101,
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