masturbation
-
confused.girl.
- newbie
- Posts: 1
- Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 1:30 pm
- Age: 20
- Awesomeness Quotient: i sing :)
- Primary language: english
- Pronouns: she, her
- Sexual identity: heterosexual
- Location: michigan
masturbation
hi! my family and friends don't know i masturbate..so there's no one for me to ask what to do...i want to prepare myself for sex with masturbation..any tips?
-
Sam W
- previous staff/volunteer
- Posts: 10320
- Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 11:06 am
- Age: 35
- Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
- Primary language: english
- Pronouns: she/her
- Sexual identity: queer
- Location: Coast
Re: masturbation
Hi confused.girl,
If you haven't already done so, I'd check out this article as a starting place. It goes over the basics of masturbation and the different approaches people take to it: Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation.
Too, while masturbation can teach us about our bodies, pleasure, and fantasies, there isn't a set kind of masturbation or collection of things to do to "prepare" for sex. Being ready for sex involves not only knowing what we like, but what our partner likes as well. Does that make sense?
If you haven't already done so, I'd check out this article as a starting place. It goes over the basics of masturbation and the different approaches people take to it: Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation.
Too, while masturbation can teach us about our bodies, pleasure, and fantasies, there isn't a set kind of masturbation or collection of things to do to "prepare" for sex. Being ready for sex involves not only knowing what we like, but what our partner likes as well. Does that make sense?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
-
- Similar Topics
- Replies
- Views
- Last post
-
- 3 Replies
- 3491 Views
-
Last post by KierC
Sat May 03, 2025 10:23 am
-
- 1 Replies
- 331 Views
-
Last post by Latha
Mon Apr 06, 2026 7:57 am
-
-
New post How can I know if I'm addicted to masturbation?
by CrazyBonobo » Wed Aug 20, 2025 9:19 pm » in Ask Us! - 1 Replies
- 1594 Views
-
Last post by char
Thu Aug 21, 2025 1:20 am
-
-
-
New post about frequent masturbation
by liamesecat » Thu Aug 28, 2025 7:06 am » in Got Questions? Get Answers. - 1 Replies
- 2108 Views
-
Last post by char
Thu Aug 28, 2025 9:12 am
-
-
-
New post Masturbation and self exploration
by Wekokxi_7 » Sat Dec 20, 2025 2:56 pm » in Sex & Sexuality - 3 Replies
- 1547 Views
-
Last post by mikky
Sun Dec 21, 2025 1:44 pm
-