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Hi there,

It seems I am little older than a lot of people on this website. I am over 20 but I have not had much experience when it comes to sex. I need a little help & advice.

Last weekend I invited a girl over. I am going to be as pc as possible. She performed oral on me and I finished. It seems as if most ejaculate was swallowed by her but I am not too sure. After, she asked me to show her what I do on my own. So I showed her and then I wrapped my hand around hers while she did it. There was a little bit of precum but she swallowed that too. After that, I fingered her with the same hand I touched my penis with earlier. I'm not sure if there was ejaculate on my hands or not. My penis was a little damp when I touched it but I am not sure if it was saliva or ejaculate. I wanted to know if it possible for her to get pregnant from this interaction. Is it possible for me to transfer from on my penis, to my finger, and then into the vagina? There are differing opinions across the internet. I really appreciate any answers.

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