Scarleteen

Hi. I am a 14 year old straight boy. I never told anyone about this, but I suffer from Phimosis, which is a condition when I can't pull my penis skin off the tip. That wouldn't be a problem, but I almost never touch the tip, so it's really sensitive. When I masturbate, it's not a problem, but if I ever get to have sex with a real girl, I am very afraid of the experience I will go through. I'm afraid that it will hurt me, because the tip of my pp will be touched by the vagina and the movement will pull the skin back, and because I have phimosis, it might not get back. Could this really happen? Am I capable of sex with this condition?

Hi based_chad,

Some people with phimosis are able to have vaginal sex quite comfortably, but others find it ends up being very uncomfortable. That being said, unless it breaks the tissue attaching the foreskin to the head (which would require some force), vaginal sex wouldn't damage the foreskin or make it unable to go back into position.

Have you ever spoken to a healthcare provider about this issue?