i dont know how to cum and at this point ive almost given up

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kittymeowsical
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i dont know how to cum and at this point ive almost given up

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so im 14, and this isnt new, like some other post i saw. ive been trying to orgasm for the past 2 years. as a person with female body parts, ive heard its harder then if you're a guy. while ive never had any access to toys or anything, ive tried my best, but my hand always cramps up. and while i dont know what it feels like, so i worry it may have already happened and i never noticed. i usually do clit stimulation, insertion of fingers does little to nothing for me and ive finally decided to look for outside help. :oops:
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Re: i dont know how to cum and at this point ive almost given up

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Hi kittymeowsical,

So, as you probably saw looking at other posts, struggles with masturbation and orgasm are actually common. In your case, can you tell me a little about how things feel when you masturbate? Is it that you're feeling a lot of pleasure but aren't sure if it's reaching the point of orgasm? Or does it not feel like much, period?
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