Strapon Etiquette

Questions and discussion about your sexual lives, choices, activities, ideas and experiences.
MidwestLez
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Strapon Etiquette

Unread post by MidwestLez »

I don’t like balls so I have always cut them off when I purchase a new strap on. (Some brands don’t have “ball-less” options.) My girlfriend thinks I’m a weirdo. Anyone else do this?
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Re: Strapon Etiquette

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi MidwestLez,

Honestly, I've known people to modify their sex toys in a variety of ways, or prefer all kinds of aesthetics. But even if it's a little unusual, there's nothing weird about wanting to make things you use during sex be things you're comfortable using.
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