Masturbating Issues

[Learningthings]

So.. basically I have this back massager, and I sometimes use it to masturbate. I put it over my underwear, and let it vibrate and sometimes it feels super good when I’m in the mood. I can never finish tho, because once that high is over it doesn’t feel like anything until I stop the massager and try again. And sometimes after a while it makes me want to pee. Is there something wrong with me?

[Sam W]

Hi Learningthings,

Nope, there's nothing wrong with you! Plenty of people find that the intensity of a vibrator sort of fades as the use it and that starting and stopping is a way to keep things pleasurable. As for the peeing sensation, sometimes when you masturbate it can put pressure on your bladder and the surrounding muscles, which can make you feel like you need to pee.