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Trance
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Penetration problem

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Hi. I am 25 and trying sex for the first time but penetration is very difficult or impossible because we (I and my boyfriend) were patient, I was aroused and we used lube but he still could not penetrate me. I feel the inside of my virgina is tight because only the cap of the penis could go in after so much pain and when my boyfriend fingered me I felt my pussy tight on his finger and it was really painful... Pls what do I do
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Sam W
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Re: Penetration problem

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Trance,

Ouch, that sounds really unpleasant! Lube and arousal are big parts of making it easier to insert things into the vaginal canal, but they're not the only things that can contribute to painful intercourse. If you read through this article, do any of the other reasons listed feel like they apply to you? From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Trance
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Re: Penetration problem

Unread post by Trance »

Thanks alot. I think I will try reaching orgasm b4 penetration. If it doesn't work then I will let you know.. I really appreciate your help
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Nicole
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Re: Penetration problem

Unread post by Nicole »

Hi Trance, no problem! Please let us know if you need any further assistance.
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