Scarleteen

Hi. I am 25 and trying sex for the first time but penetration is very difficult or impossible because we (I and my boyfriend) were patient, I was aroused and we used lube but he still could not penetrate me. I feel the inside of my virgina is tight because only the cap of the penis could go in after so much pain and when my boyfriend fingered me I felt my pussy tight on his finger and it was really painful... Pls what do I do

Hi Trance,

Ouch, that sounds really unpleasant! Lube and arousal are big parts of making it easier to insert things into the vaginal canal, but they're not the only things that can contribute to painful intercourse. If you read through this article, do any of the other reasons listed feel like they apply to you? From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse

Thanks alot. I think I will try reaching orgasm b4 penetration. If it doesn't work then I will let you know.. I really appreciate your help

Hi Trance, no problem! Please let us know if you need any further assistance.