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Hello
I did fingering and dry humping with clothes on with my partner on the 7th. Although I know it is almost impossible to cause pregnancy, I continued to experience fear until my partner took a pregnancy test 14 days and 30 days after the incident. The results of both tests were negative but until now she has missed her period by 4 days and has not had her period yet. Can I trust both test results above? Is there any way to overcome my fear and anxiety? I have read the article you posted and have visited a psychologist but this fear still haunts me.
Thankyou

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• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
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You mentioned wanting to get to the bottom of the anxiety you know is irrational. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: viewtopic.php?f=21&t=12341

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