First time...

[adip0se]

I'm not sure if this goes against rues or not, but I'm a little worried about having sex (I'm a girl in a relationship with a guy) for the first time. Besides the risk of getting pregnant (we have condoms). I found out recently that women don't orgasm during PIV....does that mean that I will never "finish" with my boyfriend? Or does that just mean that I won't be able to orgasm based on PIV alone.....Idk. I'm confused and worried because I don't want him to be sad knowing that I can't orgasm during sex :/ any advice?

[Eddie C]

Hello there, adip0se. Welcome to the boards.

Sex -- and what people feels with sex -- is something that is going to vary very widely. There is no rule that says that people with vaginas are -- or are not -- going to have an orgasm with intercourse. Lost of them do orgasm, others don't. What makes someone -- no matter what genitals they have -- orgasm is going to be very personal and most of times is about their brains and not their genitals.

We have a couple of very good articles about this topic:

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexua ... sers_guide
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/relat ... l_there_is
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advic ... _conundrum

Hope these can help you!