Scarleteen

Hello! I am 18 years old and a virgin, I usually masturbate regularly, but it is usually just rubbing my clitoris and playing with it. I used to think before that I was not able to insert a finger inside of me because it was really hard for me to put a tampon. It took me some time to insert one finger on my vagina and when I did it, I usually didn’t like it. Sometimes I did, but it just felt weird and not as good as when I rubbed my clitoris. A week ago, I began worrying about what would happen during my first time having sex.

As I said before, one finger was really hard to insert. Even after lubricating and getting different positions. I started worrying because I thought that I had some kind of disease or needed surgery. Approximately a week ago, I began to consume even more pornography than usual (which I am really trying to quit), and I have been reallyyy horny. In search of alleviating my worries, I started to try to insert two fingers. At first it was painful, but I relaxed and tried to get used to two fingers. After some days of trying, I got used to it. I still don’t fully enjoy the feeling, but I cannot stop thinking about fingering.

After I fingered with two fingers, I have noticed that my vagina hole got a little bigger even when I am not horny, is this normal?? Also, I have noticed that I get waaayyy wetter, to the point where it annoys me and disgusts me. It usually gets really wet down there, but now it’s too much and I am worried rather than scared. Is it normal to be extremely wet to the point where your underwear gets wet as well and you’re dripping?? I apologize if this is weird to read, but I am genuinely concerned. Thank you.

Hi merp,

So, fingering, or sex for that matter, cannot change the shape or size of the vaginal canal or vagina. As for the discharge, there can be variation in the consistency and amount for all sorts of reasons. For starters, when you notice a lot of discharge, does that happen when you're thinking about masturbation or related topics? Or does it seem to happen regardless of what you've been thinking about. Too, have you noticed any other changes along with the change in amount of discharge, like a change in smell or color, or symptoms like itching or pain?