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so basically i identify as agender and i say i like women but like i dont know if i actually do bc like most of my crushes are females but like i read more gay fanfics thanlesbian ones because i just dont have an interest in reading the lesbian ones and i also love when boys around my age think im a boy and flirt with me and im very confused on what my sexuality is, i hope this makes sense

Hi lewqwarm,

Your post makes sense! Something that we often tell our users is that sexuality can be fluid and everchanging, meaning that you can be attracted to different people in different ways, and this may change throughout your life. Are you looking for some kind of terminology to identify with? How do you feel about that?

Also, you can be attracted to a gender in real life, but consume romantic/sexual literature about a different gender. This is actually not uncommon at all.

While we cannot tell you what your sexuality is, we can absolutely provide you with the proper resources so you can see if there are particular experiences that you can relate to. Would you be interested in that? Let me know!

sure

Okay! This series is a great starting place:
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