am i too tight?
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shawtybaefan
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am i too tight?
i just cant seem to shake the feeling that my yk is too tight i love masturbating using penetration but i can only use one or two fingers when im fully turned on i cant use anything else no way in heck could i ever fit a dildo and when my bf tried to hook up with me he couldnt even fit the tip in (to be fair hes hung like a horse) but even so nothing could get me to open up at all and when i try its painful even if im super relaxed and aroused. i never broke my hymen yet but when i try its the most painful thing in the world help? 
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Heather
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Re: am i too tight?
Hi there. I'm so sorry that you're feeling worried about your body.
So, sounds like there are a few things you don't know or misunderstand about your anatomy. I'd like to give you a couple of pieces to read, then how about we meet back here and talk some more about any concerns or questions you still have?
Those pieces are:
• With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body
• My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It
So, sounds like there are a few things you don't know or misunderstand about your anatomy. I'd like to give you a couple of pieces to read, then how about we meet back here and talk some more about any concerns or questions you still have?
Those pieces are:
• With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body
• My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It
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