Scarleteen

Hello!! Currently having a bit of a panic. I have just had text sex with someone for the first time, who I've only known for two weeks. It's been nice chatting to them and then it just sort of started to happen, I've never had sexual experiences with others before. It was really nice and good, but now I am panicking so much as I'm not sure if it was too soon for me, or a good thing to do. I have been going through a heartbreak this year which has been awful, and feel like I still am getting over what happened with that person. Just feeling so so stuck.

Hi there, Tatanif- welcome to the boards!

Don't worry, you haven't done anything wrong. Sometimes, when we get swept up in the flow of an interaction, we can forget to check in with ourselves about how we're feeling, and whether we really want what's happening. So, while what you did isn't morally bad, it may not have been right for you at this time.

When you say that you're panicking, is there anything specific that you're worried about? Or is it just a sense that you've done something that you're not sure you wanted?