Scarleteen

Hi I’m completely new to this and only have one question. I’ve tried masterbauting and found something that actually works as afab, my gender identity is non-binary, before all I had were sexual thoughts between my own oc’s as a way to distract myself, it’s been this specific gay couple I have and I like exploring new kinks in my mind that way but now that I’ve recently tried masterbauting I’ve began to have thoughts of a specific girl in my class pleasuring me and I try to shut them down, I’ve barely talked with her and it feels wrong for me to have such thoughts.

Welcome to the boards, Azulin.

Our fantasies don't cause any harm to the people we have them about. In fact, they usually don't impact them at all because they don't have any idea we are having them. So, I don't think you need to worry about doing this person wrong.

That said, if you find that while a fantasy might get you off, it leaves you feeling icky or otherwise uncomfortable in ways you don't like or feel good about, or is impacting your relationship with someone in a way you or they don't like, then by all means, you get to choose not to indulge in it anymore.