Is my body alright
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Is my body alright
So I and a group of friends were playing truth or dare last week and it got pretty steamy and I was dared to spend an hour in a different room with some other girl so we did that. After some 10mins in the room she started to slide her hand in my pants and touch my penis and I let her continue. She rubbed my penis and made it erect so I removed my pants ad she was about to give a hand job. Then as she saw my penis size she declined doing so. I know it's small but what if this happens in future relationships too??
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Re: Is my body alright
Hi Tanc,
I'm sorry that this person reacted in that way. Sadly, some people still carry around a lot of misconceptions about the average penis size and the degree to which size actually matters to pleasure (the short answer is: it doesn't really).
I linked a piece in my other answer to you that goes into all that in more detail. But in terms of those worries about the future, I will say that someone who is a good partner for you is going to be someone who is excited to be with you and excited about your body, not someone who sees the size of one body part as some kind of dealbreaker.
I'm sorry that this person reacted in that way. Sadly, some people still carry around a lot of misconceptions about the average penis size and the degree to which size actually matters to pleasure (the short answer is: it doesn't really).
I linked a piece in my other answer to you that goes into all that in more detail. But in terms of those worries about the future, I will say that someone who is a good partner for you is going to be someone who is excited to be with you and excited about your body, not someone who sees the size of one body part as some kind of dealbreaker.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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