fingering myself doesnt feel good anymore

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squiddd
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fingering myself doesnt feel good anymore

Unread post by squiddd »

im a male and recently ive started to finger myself, but the feeling isnt the same anymore since the first time i did it. i really enjoyed the feeling and have been trying to get it back, is there anything i can do?
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Re: fingering myself doesnt feel good anymore

Unread post by Sofi »

Hi there, welcome to the boards. We really can't give specific tips or advice on how to enjoy masturbating because everyone's body is different and everyone enjoys different things. Plus, our main sexual organ is our brain, so most pleasure starts there. What I can say is if you get too in your head about not getting that "first time enjoyment" anymore, it will just be harder to enjoy it at all. Instead, try to just relax and enjoy the experience as a different one every time, allowing it to feel different, and just experiment with what feels right. It should never hurt, but beyond that, there's no right or wrong way to do it.
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