This is my first time here and I'm looking to get some help and advice.
I'm a 21 year old guy and I recently got together with my partner who is 20, we're currently into our 3th month and I feel like our love and relationship is perfectly fine, her parents love me to death and my parents love her as well, our connection between families are without doubt honest and love. However . . . I feel like lately, specially past month/two, shes been answering less often, not calling as often as we used to, now I know people get busy and so, but I feel like partners, lovers should be somehow prioritised that way you feel loved right? But lets get into business, the main reason I'm here. My partner used to have a ''Sex buddy'' just before our relationship, they had sex 2 weeks before me and her got together, I asked her if she would be willing to share her chats with specific guys I was a bit suspicious about and she immediately declined, telling me how much of a red flag it was, i said okay and let it go. Now, recently we sat on the train, she was scrolling through instagram and i noticed a chat that looked a little weird, I asked her to go through it and she kinda stopped and waited a bit, she later says ''It's my old sex buddy'' and so i once again asked her to go throught it and she did, i noticed their conversation and felt myself kinda dying inside, there we're some texts that kinda made creeped out sort of, not jealous just weirded out. They we're checking back on each other and some msgs were ''Whats new with you?'' She replied ''Nothing new, just good old me, you?'' he answered ''Same, grumpy old me haha'' and she replied ''Doesnt have to be a bad thing
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I wish for some advice, tips or even someone to talk to about it.