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I'll get straight to the point, and give some background- I really struggle to have sex.
I am in a relationship with a girl and I would consider it to be pretty serious. We have been together for 13 months, but were really close for about 6 months before, so effectively a year and a half. I've had relationships in the past but I only turned 16 5 days ago so obviously when I was 12-14 years old I wouldn't say I was 'in love' with my then girlfriends. So I was a little nervous how this relationship would pan out at first, and whether I would do anything wrong, but everything ended up going really smoothly with no problems.
About 6 months into the relationship (summer 2014, so no school) I started really thinking about sex, thinking I was ready. So we talked and she was ready too. But it turns out I was wrong- I wasn't ready. Between august and December we tried 3 times and I chickened out, which was embarrassing. Finally on her 16th birthday in December I found the courage to complete the act but it was over pretty quickly and sadly I don't really remember what happened. Since then we have tried once more and I couldn't do it.
I don't understand. I love her dearly, and she has supported me a lot, notably when I had issues at home. She has been very understanding with this problem too. When the time comes to get intimate, I have no problem, and can participate in foreplay very comfortably, but as soon as it comes to the climax, I overthink/take too long/start to go soft/can't get it in. Please help!
I've now realised how long this is so again apologies if I've gone wrong somewhere.
Thanks for helping
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