Which fetish is fine?

[mika.m]

I have seen so many times that some people says there is nothing wrong with fetishes and sometimes some other people says some fetishes are bad and disapproving.
I just want to know which fetish is fine or wrong and how can lost my fetishes that are wrong?
And how can I control myself when it's not a good time to aroused by a fetish?

Also my fetishes are feet, open wedge chunky shoes, high heels and sometimes long hair fyi

[Ellie]

Hi Mika.M,

There are no fetishes that are inherently wrong or bad. People disapprove of things they don't understand or personally find distasteful, and a lot of people hold the belief that someone's fetish or fantasies determine their character or their actions, which is untrue. Fetishes are a wonderful and diverse facet of human pleasure, and everyone has different turn-ons, just like everyone has different hobbies and interests. Fetishes only become a concern if they are interfering with your or someone else's wellbeing. It is totally okay and very common to be attracted to feet, shoes, and hair! If you find yourself fixating on them when it's not a good time, it helps to distract yourself with something else.

[mika.m]

Is there any blog posts about fetish?

[Ellie]

Here's a post on the topic of kinks, and it mentions fetish as well: Working The Kinks Out. You can also use the search bar to find discussions about fetishes in the boards.