Scarleteen

Hi I’m 16 female and as most girls are interested in pleasure and I’ve tried vibrators and fingering myself, but none of it feels good and I don’t know why? to be honest. I get times where I’m aroused and what. but it’s like nothing feels good in my vagina and yeah I’m a virgin but I’m kinda concerned that I might never get pleasure for it.

Hi Jasscales, and welcome to the boards!

When you say none of it feels good, is it a painful feeling? Numb? Just not pleasurable? There’s a few things I can recommend but I want to make sure I’m understanding what you’re experiencing first!

I wouldn’t say it’s painful, it’s just like I have my fingers in and it’s not a pleasure feeling.I can feel them but I’m not getting a feeling of pleasure. I’ve also never masturbated before witch is something I’d love to experience. but definitely not going happen with what I’ve experienced.

Hi Jasscales!

Don't worry, it is definitely possible for you to experience pleasure from masturbation. These sorts of difficulties are fairly common, and are usually resolvable with some time and trial and error.

I have two more questions: Do you usually feel lubricated when you try to masturbate? Also, what goes on in your head when you try- do you feel focused and aroused in your mind as well/ do you have some fantasy in mind?