Using Your Fingers

[hummingbirdd]

So I just used my fingers inside myself for the first time as someone who was born a male, and honestly, I think it was a lot more fun than people make it seem. Obviously I'm not a victim to feeling shameful because obviously I know I'm not straight. I was wondering if anyone had any advice about how I could make it feel even better in the future?

[Willa]

Hi Himmingbirdd,

For anal masturbation a couple things to keep in mind are first making sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are cut down short, this is for safety but also so that the insertion is comfortable as possible. Another factor that can be very useful is introducing lubricant. Lube can make the insertion easier as well as reduce friction. And with all types of masturbation it is important to relax and focus on what is pleasurable, never trying to force anything or do anything that is uncomfortable or painful. I am going to include some links here that also will talk about these topics in more depth:

https://www.scarleteen.com/read/bodies/ ... r-prostate
https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sex ... sturbation