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Hey my name is Jay I’m back again my girlfriend recently said that she bleeds after everytime we have sex and I’m wondering if she’s pregnant or not she’s not on her period and it literally only happens after we have sex only and after she’s done bleeding it don’t happen again till after we have sex again and I do wear a condom and don’t cum in her even with it on so somone just please help me cause I’m scared she’s pregnant

Hi there, Jay

Don't worry. Bleeding after sex doesn't indicate pregnancy, and there isn't a risk from the activities you've described. This is because you had a condom on, and didn't ejaculate. For pregnancy to occur, there has to be some contact between sperm and the vulva/vagina, so you can rest assured that there isn't any risk here.

Between this post and your previous one, it sounds like you've been pretty worried about the chance that your girlfriend might get pregnant. That seems stressful! What would you think about taking a break from having sex for a while? It would give you time to understand why you've been feeling so anxious, and find ways to manage your concerns. (We can help you think about this, if you want.)

Yea I told her it’s to risky and I’m to scared so we have to think of plans to be safer

Hi there, Jay

That sounds like a good idea! Let us know if you need any assistance around talking about and making those plans. For a start, you can find a lot of great resources about pregnancy and contraception here: https://www.scarleteen.com/about/pregna ... -resources