Sexual interests mocked by parents
Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2024 10:04 pm
About a year ago my parents walked in on me and my MTF girlfriend.
Before this happened they always encouraged me to be safe if i ever did want to have sex and to just do the right things. When I came out to them as a lesbian they were very supportive.
after this happened they looked at me shamed me. was glad me and my girlfriend had safe words and used protection. proceeded to call me a fake lesbian for having sex with a trans person who hadn’t gotten bottom surgery. Had to explain that to them (they no longer do this). And got mad because when i came out as a lesbian they thought they wouldnt have to deal with risk of pregnancy. They also told me i had betrayed their trust by making choices about my body.
For months now every time I go to hang out with my girlfriend they make jokes about how I shouldn’t have sex. Or basically call me a whore. It makes me really uncomfortable every time they do this and makes me embarrassed i wanted to have sex at all.
Recently I bought tee-shirts at spencers and they made a joke about me buying a sex toy at spencers *which i have done wasnt during that trip though* and said that they’d need a different convo if that was the case. Which in the past when ive earned my own money they’ve made jokes like “i dont care what you buy its your own money as long as its legal and even if it was sex toys thats your own business”
I dont hate sex because of this. I’m just tired of being shamed and scared to have sex again. Any advice???
Before this happened they always encouraged me to be safe if i ever did want to have sex and to just do the right things. When I came out to them as a lesbian they were very supportive.
after this happened they looked at me shamed me. was glad me and my girlfriend had safe words and used protection. proceeded to call me a fake lesbian for having sex with a trans person who hadn’t gotten bottom surgery. Had to explain that to them (they no longer do this). And got mad because when i came out as a lesbian they thought they wouldnt have to deal with risk of pregnancy. They also told me i had betrayed their trust by making choices about my body.
For months now every time I go to hang out with my girlfriend they make jokes about how I shouldn’t have sex. Or basically call me a whore. It makes me really uncomfortable every time they do this and makes me embarrassed i wanted to have sex at all.
Recently I bought tee-shirts at spencers and they made a joke about me buying a sex toy at spencers *which i have done wasnt during that trip though* and said that they’d need a different convo if that was the case. Which in the past when ive earned my own money they’ve made jokes like “i dont care what you buy its your own money as long as its legal and even if it was sex toys thats your own business”
I dont hate sex because of this. I’m just tired of being shamed and scared to have sex again. Any advice???