Scarleteen

hello! thank you for providing us such a helpful platform!

i want to ask about something but allow me to tell you first about what happened to me. i know this may sounds dumb and hilarious so 5 days ago i was just sitting on my bf lap while he touched me, apparently his trousers had a tiny wet spot. knowing that, i rapidly ran to restroom to check if there was wet spot on the butt part of my trousers or not. i found a super faint spot on it, but not sure if it was my bf's precum or not. after that i checked my undies but i still remembered that there was no wet spot. i was so dumb bcs i didnt change my undies bcs i remembered it was completely dry. however now im panicking bcs what if my undies actually also had a super faint wet spot but i didnt realize that and i accidentally touched that spot and touched another part of my undies? im afraid that it could be precum and spread all over my undies. can i get pregnant from that situation? i just want to be reassured. my period is in 7 days. thank you

Hey whitelies, welcome to the boards!

I have moved your post to it's own thread so as not to detract from the other conversation.

Let me reassure you, there is no chance of pregnancy in that scenario.
1) Sperm are incredibly fragile and can't survive outside the body for very long
2) they can't pass through barriers such as clothing
3) the force of ejaculation is quite vital for conception, as sperm have difficulty moving on their own

I hope that helps! I want to ask, do you have anxieties over pregnancy often?

thank you so much for replying!

so, it's really safe even if I didnt change my undies that day?

honestly, i've been going through similar situations before but it turned out that i still had my period. now i'm in that kind of situation again but my pregnancy scare is less than before.

Hi Whitelies!

Yes, it really is safe, even if you didn't change your clothes that day. I'm glad you're less afraid now than you were before. We do have some great resources on pregnancy scares and evaluating pregnancy risk — would you like to read them? Learning more about this subject might help you handle situations like this in the future.

i'm very glad that you calmed me down

i would like to read it, it might helps to improve my knowledge regarding this <3

Hi whitelies,

Okay! Here are some pieces to get you started!

Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?
Human Reproduction: A Seafarer's Guide
The Pregnancy Panic Companion