Pregnancy scares

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Jaylen23
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Pregnancy scares

Unread post by Jaylen23 »

So my girl and I had sex around 2 weeks ago I whiped off all of my pre cum before we had sex and put the condom on it was the wrong way so I whiped again and put it on the right way and whiped the condom off also now she is currently going onto 6 days late she said she feels her period cramps and stuff but it just hasn’t came yet what should I expect
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Re: Pregnancy scares

Unread post by KierC »

Hi Jay, and welcome back to the boards!

So, when you apply a condom the wrong way the first time (it happens!), you need to throw that condom out and replace it with a new one. There may be a slight risk here, are you able to acquire a pregnancy test to ease concerns?
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Re: Pregnancy scares

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I can but I think I’m going to wait a bit longer to buy one
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Unread post by KierC »

I also want to add that, in the future, after improper condom usage or any sexual activity that poses a risk to pregnancy, your partner can take emergency contraception up to 120 hours, but most effective within 24 hours. You can read more about it here: Birth Control Bingo: Emergency Contraception.

For the future, here’s two resources on proper condom usage:
Condom Basics: A User’s Manual
All the Barriers! All the Time!
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Re: Pregnancy scares

Unread post by Jaylen23 »

Ok thank u idk what to do cause she not showing any signs but she’s late and her breast hurt but she is saying that’s cause of her period and she skips her period somtimes so I don’t really know what to do
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Re: Pregnancy scares

Unread post by Andy »

Hi there Jaylen23,

late or missed period can have many other reasons than a pregnancy but as Kier has mentioned, the best way to find out for sure if she is pregnant or not is taking a pregnancy test. Is your partner also worried about the pregnancy risk? Does she want to take the test?
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