I don't know what we are
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chy
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I don't know what we are
So I am in the 10th grade and I started dating this guy named Tyler in 7th and we lasted till the middle of eighth grade but then I moved and we broke up. But, I moved back this year and I started going to the same highschool as him about 2 months into the year he asked me out to a party and we ended up drinking and doing it in his car. But, after it happened he ignored me in school and started dating another girl and when I started to date another guy at school he got mad. He says that he wants to just be friends but then whenever i do anything with any guys he gets mad and starts gosting me. Pls help.
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Jacob
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Re: I don't know what we are
Hey chy!
My immediate thought is that he's not being a very good friend by acting this way, and overreacting to you continuing to have a dating life.
What do you think about it? Are you still thinking you want to be friends with him?
My immediate thought is that he's not being a very good friend by acting this way, and overreacting to you continuing to have a dating life.
What do you think about it? Are you still thinking you want to be friends with him?
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
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chy
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Re: I don't know what we are
Thanks for the reply Jacob, to be honest, I rethought our friendship after I read your reply and decided to give our friendship a break and try again when we both have had some time to think about what we are and what we want to be. - Chy
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KierC
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Re: I don't know what we are
Hi there Chy,
I’m glad to hear that Jacob’s response helped you reflect on your friendship a bit, and that you’re taking a break for yourself. It’s so important that the relationships in your life are good experiences for you, too, so I think your plan to take a break is a very good one. Is there any support you can think of that might be helpful for you as you take a break from being friends with him?
I’m glad to hear that Jacob’s response helped you reflect on your friendship a bit, and that you’re taking a break for yourself. It’s so important that the relationships in your life are good experiences for you, too, so I think your plan to take a break is a very good one. Is there any support you can think of that might be helpful for you as you take a break from being friends with him?
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chy
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Re: I don't know what we are
Hello KierC,
Thank you for your response. To your question on whether there is any support I can think of that might be helpful for me as I take a break from being friends with him, I have multiple friends who are helping me and he also decided that he wanted to do the same thing. We are attempting to figure what is going to happen.
Thank you for your response. To your question on whether there is any support I can think of that might be helpful for me as I take a break from being friends with him, I have multiple friends who are helping me and he also decided that he wanted to do the same thing. We are attempting to figure what is going to happen.
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Andy
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Re: I don't know what we are
Hi there chy,
It’s great to hear you have supportive friends who are helping you! Let us know if there is something else we can help you with <3
It’s great to hear you have supportive friends who are helping you! Let us know if there is something else we can help you with <3
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chy
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Re: I don't know what we are
Hello Andy, Thanks! 
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Jacob
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Re: I don't know what we are
Super pleased over here to read how this turned out!
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You