Am I getting too old to enjoy shipping my favorite fictional characters that happen to be minors?
Posted: Sun Nov 03, 2024 8:35 am
This is something I’ve been wanting to ask about/get off my chest.
The other day I saw a TikTok about how a lady in her 30’s still reads about Harry Potter fanfiction to this day.
And most comments were normal, until I scrolled down a bit.
People started calling her weird for reading/writing fanfiction about the fictional teenagers.
She responded, and made sure to tell them it wasn’t anything sexual, but still some thought it was weird that she liked still liked shipping the characters at her “grown age”
I hate how TikTok makes everything seem bad.
This made me nervous.
I am 17, and most of my favorite fictional characters/ships are younger than me.
If I continue to write/read fanfiction of my favorite fictional characters, and they happen to be minors, does that make me weird and gross?
I mean, most of my favorite artists/fanfiction writers are 30 year old Tumblr artists, and I never thought anything was weird about that, even if their favorite fictional characters happen to be minors.
Idk. My OCD likes to convince me.
I talked to my mom about it. She told me that I really need to stop worrying about what is considered “normal” she said she knows I’m not weird. She said I’m fine. She said to like whatever like for as long as I like it.
Is she right? Or… should I listen to the TikTok comments?
I just like the characters how they are. I can’t imagine forcing myself to stop liking what characters I like to read about simply because I’m older than them
Is this weird? I promise it’s not supposed to be weird. I just like the characters I like, and I like to ship them. I don’t want to become an adult and older if it means I should stop being like this. I can’t help that fictional characters don’t actually age
Or am I just looking too much into it? I never thought anything about it before…
Just trying to convince myself I’m overthinking about it…
The other day I saw a TikTok about how a lady in her 30’s still reads about Harry Potter fanfiction to this day.
And most comments were normal, until I scrolled down a bit.
People started calling her weird for reading/writing fanfiction about the fictional teenagers.
She responded, and made sure to tell them it wasn’t anything sexual, but still some thought it was weird that she liked still liked shipping the characters at her “grown age”
I hate how TikTok makes everything seem bad.
This made me nervous.
I am 17, and most of my favorite fictional characters/ships are younger than me.
If I continue to write/read fanfiction of my favorite fictional characters, and they happen to be minors, does that make me weird and gross?
I mean, most of my favorite artists/fanfiction writers are 30 year old Tumblr artists, and I never thought anything was weird about that, even if their favorite fictional characters happen to be minors.
Idk. My OCD likes to convince me.
I talked to my mom about it. She told me that I really need to stop worrying about what is considered “normal” she said she knows I’m not weird. She said I’m fine. She said to like whatever like for as long as I like it.
Is she right? Or… should I listen to the TikTok comments?
I just like the characters how they are. I can’t imagine forcing myself to stop liking what characters I like to read about simply because I’m older than them
Is this weird? I promise it’s not supposed to be weird. I just like the characters I like, and I like to ship them. I don’t want to become an adult and older if it means I should stop being like this. I can’t help that fictional characters don’t actually age
Or am I just looking too much into it? I never thought anything about it before…
Just trying to convince myself I’m overthinking about it…