Squirting with a vibrator vs not being able to without

[jumpingbean]

Hey guys, I just have some question regarding masturbation. When I use a vibrator on my clit within seconds all this liquid comes out almost like I’m peeing and I can keep going if I hold it there but I’m quite sensitive so I take it away but anytime I put it back the same thing happens. Now while have sex I do feel good and I feel pressure in my lower abdomen but I don’t squirt and I have never orgasmed before. I’m just wondering why I only seem to get slight pleasure in a way from a vibrator but can’t get anywhere else especially during sex it always ends up in me being disappointed.
Thank you for reading anything helps!

[Jacob]

Hi jumpingbean, and welcome to the boards!

It sounds like you get more of a response from stimulating the outside of the clitoris compared to whatever is going on during sex. So something you could certainly try is to incorporate more clitoral stimulation during partnered sex too.

That said, I wouldn't put too much stock in what it means if you squirt or not... It happens for some people when they're enjoying themselves, and for others when they're not, and for most people not at all... so squirting doesn't necessarily prove something is more or less pleasurable, whereas you will know something is pleasurable because it feels good.

If you want to explore more I'd give these two articles a look:
Squirt: On Ejaculation
With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body

Hopefully both of them can help you