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Hello,
I’m a little concerned about my orgasms because I seem to only manage to have an orgasm (a real amazing relief) after 30-40 minutes with dry-humping or clitoral stimulation with a vibrator. Since it takes so long, it starts to build up to the feeling of an extreme urge to pee but I don’t know if that’s normal. I don’t squirt or pee in the meantime but the feeling of having to go turns me on and makes me finish. I feel like it’s not normal at all and I want to change this (in case I have an omorashi kink)

Hope someone can reassure me here,
Thank you

Hi ilovemusic18, welcome to the boards!

You know, I don't think you need to change anything here. Thirty to forty minutes is a very normal length of time for a masturbation session, and it is not unusual for people to feel the need to urinate during sex, or for that feeling to be pleasurable. This is actually a pretty common experience, because of the way the body is structured. The bladder and the urethra exist pretty close to erogenous areas like the clitoris and g-spot, so stimulating one can cause sensation in the other. If you haven't tried already, you could see if going to the bathroom before you masturbate reduces this sensation, but this isn't a problem that you have to fix.

Just because the sensation of having to pee feels good, doesn't mean you have an omorashi kink or that you have to make it a part of your life. That said, having an omorashi kink isn't wrong or abnormal — it is one of the many ways people experience pleasure, and that is good.