Scarleteen

Hello!

I’m a 13 male and I’ve recently tried to put a finger in my butt while masturbating, with lube. It did a little something but I didn’t really feel anything. Is there another object I could use or do I need to go the extra mile and buy a sex toy ?

Hi there Angelz,

we actually have a whole article about household items you can use as sex toys and how to do that safely! The part about dildos is where you will find what you need: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition. I just want to stress that it’s really important that whatever you might use for anal stimulation has a flared base so it doesn’t get lost inside.

It’s also worth remembering that not experiencing pleasure the first time you tried this doesn’t mean that your finger is "not enough". It might be that you just haven’t found the kind, speed or pressure of stimulation that works for you, you weren’t in the right mood or maybe anal stimulation just don’t do much for you in general. These things can take a lifetime to work out, so don’t put pressure on yourself and go with what feels good!

Thank you!
I remember seeing that article but I didn’t think it was useful. It was a week ago tho, before I started doing that, so I’ll check it out. I’ve tried using 2 fingers and that’s better so yeah

Hi Angelz! Definitely check that article out again and see if it's helpful to you now. If you still have questions, especially about what is safe to use, we'd be happy to talk about it more!