HELP FOR MY SEX TIMING

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Hi , am facing issue in my timings.my girlfriend never become happy.Always she discussed about other men. now we are also trying to concive then plan to marry. am looking for suggestions and help

[Jacob]

Hi there!

I'm sorry your partner is comparing you to ex-partners! That can be quite an unkind thing to do to a partner, and I'm sorry if she's comparing you in a negative way. Is that's what is happening?

Also when you say timing, are you saying you are trying to orgasm at the same time? This can be a relatively rare thing for any two people to do because we're all so different.

I think if you can both be kind to eachother and make this a safe place for you both to explore, it would be good to talk to her more about what she enjoys and ask her more about her orgasms, whether she has had them on her own, what she does to reach orgasm, so you can understand her better. Helping our partners feel pleasure is more about listening and reacting to their words and their body than it is about any secret "tricks" to bring them to orgasm. It's something both of you work on together.

I'd also say that if you are looking to have a child together then having a warm and caring relationship with your partner to start with is also going to make you both better parents.

Do you think you could speak to her more about her sexual pleasure and orgasm perhaps?

I'd also recommend you give this piece a read: With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body - that should give you a deeper understanding of sexual pleasure and maybe help you have these conversations with her. You also don't need to read it all in one chunk, you can move around and read the sections that you think will help you most.