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Hiii this is my first post ....kinda scared but ok

Umm I'm a virgin that never been with a guy but I do masturbate sometimes but I never feel a sense of .....release.... I use my fingers....thinking to get a bullet vibratory to start off because my fingers jest don't do it.

I got fingered by a guy before and it felt geat but when I'm doing it for myself it don't feel the same


is something wrong with me???

Hi Sarah and welcome to the boards!

First off, I hope it helps to hear that you are by far not the only person with similar experiences, if you look through the boards history, you can check for yourself!
There are several reasons for that, one is that our minds play a crucial role in how we experience arousal or pleasure so the presence of a partner, for example, can change things a lot. Secondly, we are all different, we like and need different things and it often takes a lot of time to find out what kind of stimulation, fantasies, environment etc. works the best. So it might be you just haven’t discovered the most enjoyable way to masturbate yet.

I would like to give you this article that talks about how to approach the exploring and learning about your body if you want to search for ways to make masturbation more pleasurable: Take a Self-Love Road Trip: Let Curiosity Guide Your Masturbation

And also this article if you want to try different kinds of stimulation using household items, which might help you with choosing a toy if you decide to buy one: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition

And you can come back to ask any additional questions or discuss anything that comes up when reading them!

how can i even buy one without telling my parents

Hey Ugi, and welcome!

Could you start your own topic with this question, please?

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