Numb vagina?

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Numb vagina?

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Is it normal for your vagina to be completely numb? I don't feel anything in there, I don't feel anything when I get cuts in there, and I know I don't have a g-spot because I've looked everywhere for it and I just never feel anything at all in there. The only pleasure I get is from my outer clit and for some reason from pressing on my entrance but not going inside it. Also, I can never put anything in there bigger than like one finger without the entrance hurting, no matter how aroused I am, but I'm not sure if that's related, just that everything outside the vagina is sensitive and feels things, but anything inside is just nothing.
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Re: Numb vagina?

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Hi, jokolenono!

There is so much variation in anatomy! How neat, right?! It sounds like you are catching on to this when it comes to your 'G-spot' or lack of. There are a few things I want to address here: numbness, g-spot and pleasure for AFAB (assigned female at birth) folks. Let's get started!

I have a few questions about the numbness. A feeling of numbness can come from sensitivity, too much stimulation or too little. Do any of these, or a combination perhaps, feel true of your body?

On to the infamous 'G-spot' or Grafenburg Spot! One often held misconception about this is that it is a distinct button or spot. In reality, I like to think of it more as a general zone. This article may provide some clarity on everything going on down there. Let us know if you have any questions after reading it.

Lastly, I am going to make some very general statements about female pleasure in hopes that it will make you feel more 'normal'. I put that in quotes because every body has variations. Okay, so, female bodied individuals often require clitoral stimulation to climax. A smaller percentage of women can 'get off' from inserting something into the vaginal opening alone.

How does reading all of this make you feel?
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