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Is it normal for your vagina to be completely numb? I don't feel anything in there, I don't feel anything when I get cuts in there, and I know I don't have a g-spot because I've looked everywhere for it and I just never feel anything at all in there. The only pleasure I get is from my outer clit and for some reason from pressing on my entrance but not going inside it. Also, I can never put anything in there bigger than like one finger without the entrance hurting, no matter how aroused I am, but I'm not sure if that's related, just that everything outside the vagina is sensitive and feels things, but anything inside is just nothing.

Hi, jokolenono!

There is so much variation in anatomy! How neat, right?! It sounds like you are catching on to this when it comes to your 'G-spot' or lack of. There are a few things I want to address here: numbness, g-spot and pleasure for AFAB (assigned female at birth) folks. Let's get started!

I have a few questions about the numbness. A feeling of numbness can come from sensitivity, too much stimulation or too little. Do any of these, or a combination perhaps, feel true of your body?

On to the infamous 'G-spot' or Grafenburg Spot! One often held misconception about this is that it is a distinct button or spot. In reality, I like to think of it more as a general zone. This article may provide some clarity on everything going on down there. Let us know if you have any questions after reading it.

Lastly, I am going to make some very general statements about female pleasure in hopes that it will make you feel more 'normal'. I put that in quotes because every body has variations. Okay, so, female bodied individuals often require clitoral stimulation to climax. A smaller percentage of women can 'get off' from inserting something into the vaginal opening alone.

How does reading all of this make you feel?