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So I am a 16 almost 17 year old girl. I’ve been talking to my friends about if they have vibrators and they do I had one 4 or 5 years ago but my mom took it away. Maybe I was to young back then but I feel like I am way more mature now. And feel as if I should be aloud to have personal time to myself and please my self. I’m not asking for a dildo but I do want to have a vibrator so I can plz me. I don’t have a boyfriend so it’s not like I’m trying to do anything for someone else. I’m not asking for condoms so me and my nonexistent boyfriend can have sex. Is it too much to ask to have a vibrator? Am I too young? We are Christians. But my mom has dildos. Help plz? Am I just being a bad daughter?

P.S. thx Hotteengirl

Hi there. There is an age minimum on sex toy purchases at most places aside some online retailers, and it isn't really appropriate to ask your mom to buy you one, in my opinion. There are ways you can make your own vibrator at home, though. You can read more about that here: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition

So I read the D.I.Y sex toys :self love edition. But the problem is if u can’t get a vibrator how can u get a condom. I am homeschooled and don’t have a license I can’t just go buy some if I could I would go buy a vibrator.

Hello!

Ah, I see how being home schooled and not being able to drive would make finding condoms a little complicated. Don't worry--we can think about your circumstances together and figure out how you might go about this.

I have a few ideas, to start:

• Could you ask a friend to help you get condoms?

• You might be able to obtain condoms at a health clinic. Would your parent support you visiting a gynecologist, and going through an appointment on your own?

• Can you receive your own mail and packages at home, or at a friend's home? You could order condoms, and there are also services that provide free condoms and lube by mail. They usually make a point of being discreet, so no one would know what you ordered unless they looked inside.