Hi there, Bourgeois.
This is a cosmetic issue, ultimately, just like what people do with the hair on their heads, and we're not somewhere where cosmetic advice is part of what we do.
If you want to do things -- for yourself, hopefully, not because anyone else is telling you to, or because you feel you have to to please them -- when it comes to pubic grooming, it's pretty easy to put a term like "pubic hair removal" into a search engine and get decent results. Overviews like this so you can get an idea about where to start are all over the place:
https://www.health.com/condition/sexual ... ir-removal
That said, what you do with your body should be about what *you* want and feel good about, not what a partner does. Our partners shouldn't be telling us what they want us to do when it comes to
our bodies: that's just not a healthy way to be with someone. Your partner gets to decide what she wants to do with her body, and she can have things she likes about other people's bodies, but telling them what she wants them to do with them is really out of bounds. It suggests controlling behavior.
Can I ask how this relationship is otherwise? Is your girlfriend otherwise good with boundaries, and with treating you as a person she might be with, but who is separate from her, and whose body might be shared sometimes, but that she understands belongs 100% to you?