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After I have piv sex I feel like a bone near my vagina hurts but I don’t know if that’s normal or if I should get it checked out.

It feels like a localized pain that isn't consistent and it almost feels like a bruise but not really. I’ve only done piv sex twice and it hurt on the same spot twice so I’m not really sure if there is anything I can do. But I like the actual sex itself is nice, I just don’t like this pain I’m feeling.

Also are condoms supposed to go on the length of the entire penis? Is it alright if the width fits but the length is a little shorter?

Hi gnarp_gnarp_2,

If you're experiencing any pain after engaging in sex, especially localized pain like you mention, I would highly recommend seeing your doctor or making an appointment at a local sexual health clinic. Having the area checked by a professional will be the best way for you to get an informed, educated opinion on your specific situation. Our services are geared more towards education, and we cannot diagnose. Are you able to do this?

No but I think at a certain angle the pain doesn’t come up so hopefully I’ll be ok but if anything else happens I’ll look for medical advice.

Also me and my partner had unprotected sex but they didn’t finish in me and it was only for a few minutes but I don’t have access to any form of birth control so I don’t know how afraid I should be right now

Hi gnarp_gnarp_2,

Ideally, a condom should cover the entire penis, length-wise and width-wise, but since its material is stretchy, it shouldn't be your biggest concern as long as the condom was put on properly. That said, since you and your partner had PIV sex, it's a good idea to get a form of contraception (like emergency contraception pills) and tested for STIs.

Considering you're in the US, is it possible for you to visit a Planned Parenthood or a healthcare center near you? They should be able to provide contraception and STI testing. We can also help locating the nearest healthcare from where you are, if you are comfortable sharing through email.

I could but I honestly can’t go anywhere right now since I don’t have access to a car and my parents can’t know about this so i wouldn’t be able to go out for about 5-6 days. By then I don’t know if it’ll be too late and I’m really worried.

I know I should’ve been smarter about this but that didn’t happen

I see. My capacity is currently limited, so apologies I cannot help much. In the meantime, would this series of articles help you with your current concerns? The Pregnancy Panic Companion